I was born in a rural village in Zhejiang and moved to the city for school at the age of ten. From Southwest University of Political Science and Law to a Master of Laws in the UK, and then a PhD in Law from the University of London; from a practicing lawyer in China and a legal consultant at an international law firm, to nearly twenty years of educational guidance, my life has always unfolded between law, education, and family. As a mother of three, I have also relearned how to grow through real choices, setbacks, and reflections. I believe that education is not about shaping a "standard answer," but about awakening through respect and helping a person find their own path through companionship. Here, I record my experiences and thoughts, and share practices regarding growth, education, and life planning.